One, while I can switch by nature I am submissive.Lovely Willowfall, I am a lowly novice at SL. I am at Social Island and completely lost. My SL name is Cruxer4. I will let you punish me if you want. My time zone is EST.
Two, some words of wisdom. There are 100 subs to every dom in SL and a 1000 of them to every good dom. The truth is most subs suck at being subs because they are caught up in their own fantasies instead of realizing the dom is in charge (as in a RL submissive relationship). So learn to switch you will get more RP in. Check YOUR fantasy at the door and let the dom control everything. Dom's are there to fulfill their fantasies not yours. Don't backseat drive.
I get tons of play because I don't worry about my fantasies, I worry about being submissive.
At the Cruxwinds RPs I organize (I'm the RP Manager at the sim) if you are a sub you must be willing to switch or you won't be allowed to play. That is because we don't have enough doms. RPing is like a movie or a play, the more parts you can play the more parts you will get. One trick ponies are pretty quickly relegated to no on wanting to play with them.
Next time I am on SL, I will send you the public landing site.