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Slaves Treated Very Badly

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malins

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If you haven't talked to her, is it because the "Master" is not permitting that? If so, that's a huge red flag.
Remember abusers are not only physical they exert a psychological hold over the abused. They get the sub to believe that they 'deserve' what is happening to them, that somehow the sub "causes" the master to be harsh.
you have to be smart enough to know your limits and to be strong enough to draw and hold the line.
But also too as the outside party you have to be very careful to not impose your morals on top of their relationship
+1

very very wise and true words.

BDSM can be a realization of your needs and a liberation and so finding to your own strength ... BUT there are also people out there who know how to bend it all into something destructive, diminishing and demeaning. Physically as well as psychologically. They are 'Masters of deception' and might outwardly carry the mask of "safe and sane" and sometimes they even succeed in being covered and defended by the community, and one of the hallmarks of long-term abuse in any setting is getting the victim to believe they deserve it / bring it about.
 

messaline

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My Mistress and I have a consensual relationship where under the appropriate circumstances she treats me like her slave and under others she treats me like a partner she loves (which she does).

Me too, though that she's not my "Mistress" in current live , only in BDSM ; anyway, she's my lover girl in fact and never she could abuse of some situations ...
That is the problem with some women who desire too much to practice BDSM and who give herselves to any Master ( or so-called ) and who're in fact only sadistic men only searching the satisfaction of their own pleasure ...
Us, who are practising BDSM in sane conditions, have always the responsibility to tell that , even if it could appear like reiterations ...
 

windar

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While this is an interesting and important discussion, I would respectfully say that it would be better on a thread of its own, rather than here, which is about pictures depicting the fictional abuse of fictional slaves and in which no real persons are harmed. Thanks.
 

messaline

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...it would be better on a thread of its own...
In France, we say : "créer une commission pour étudier un problème équivaut à enterrer ce problème !" ( to create a council to study a problem is like to bury this problem !)
I'm afraid that it could be the same in this case ; if there is a special thread concerning this discussion, may be only the "specialists" of BDSM could participate ...
It's certainly better to interfere in these kinds of threads where we'll find many people coming to have some ideas , some advices (good but also bad) for the BDSM'practice ...
So, they can have a concrete advice about what they could do or not do ...
 
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