Wouldn't it be great if we could form a secret society of similar minded men and women? Then we could establish a super-secret sign to exchange to identify a "willing participant."
Let's see? Handshake too obvious and not always available. Perhaps handcuffs tattoo on neck? No one but us would know what that meant! But I don't care much for tattoos. Any ideas from members there? If we come up with a good one, our sex lives could improve dramatically. (I myself could look forward to a tripling - 1 up to 3 a year!) (Yes, I know, that 1 is currently iffy. But the math types here would know I needed a non-zero denominator)