That’s why you’re part of the core audience here, Kathy. And gee, am I glad.
Kink.com's various iterations follow an audience reassurance sequence. First introduce the comely performer, and make sure she knows what they’re going to do to her. Then do it, much of which I leave out for the the purposes of this thread. Then a debriefing where the performers, rope marked and decompressing, give frank assessments of what they’ve been through.
The "reassurance" part comes from letting viewers know they’re not watching (or even paying for) videos of actual, forcible rape.
And so the
emoji takes on a double meaning.