first expierences

[colinmc65]

first "experiences" with bondage.
Hello. i was around 14, 15 years old when a sex booklet fell into my hands. at the time it wasn't hardcore porn yet. One of the articles there was about a young housewife who was surprised by a burglar while she was taking a shower.
this tied the naked in the bathroom and then searched her apartment for valuables. since he didn't find much, he came back to her in the bathroom. as a "compensation" he passed on to her there. the story was written from the point of view of the woman who then had a strong orgasm at the end of the "gentle" rape. is certainly not realistic, but it stirred me up at the time. since then i have been dealing with such fantasies. attached are the pictures of the woman from the story.
how were your first experiences?

 

[twonines]

first "experiences" with bondage.
Hello. i was around 14, 15 years old when a sex booklet fell into my hands. at the time it wasn't hardcore porn yet. One of the articles there was about a young housewife who was surprised by a burglar while she was taking a shower.
this tied the naked in the bathroom and then searched her apartment for valuables. since he didn't find much, he came back to her in the bathroom. as a "compensation" he passed on to her there. the story was written from the point of view of the woman who then had a strong orgasm at the end of the "gentle" rape. is certainly not realistic, but it stirred me up at the time. since then i have been dealing with such fantasies. attached are the pictures of the woman from the story.
how were your first experiences?

A very erotic situation, a woman alone ,naked and and at her most vulnerable in the shower!

 

[Zardoz]

first "experiences" with bondage.
Hello. i was around 14, 15 years old when a sex booklet fell into my hands. ...

I also remember very well this picture series published in a bondage magazine of B&D. In the late 70s.
The good old days. We were young and had perverse thoughts. And know we are old, but the thoughts are the same.

 

[Calf #15]

My first experience with bondage in a sexual setting was purely in my mind. As an adolescent I had read stories of Amazons (one of the few stories, in which the ladies got to whop the gentlemen's butts ;-) ). As often with my readings, late at night my mind would weave them in to a wet dream or two. With these dreams, though, I was captured in combat. I guess the fact that I remember the dreams with some clarity all these years later goes to show what an influence they had on me... As a captive, I would get to experience many presentations on the proper place of a woman and the "joys of being with a man" and the idea of simply having my arms tied behind my back, unable to defend myself effectively, would put my arousal into overdrive. I'm fairly certain that I hadn't seen ANY pornography at all by then and certainly not any in the bondage theme. As for the first experience with bondage porn, I remember that I actively searched for it after stumbling onto Dolcett's comics by pure chance and becoming, well, a bit obsessed with the ideas within them...

 

[Jon Smithie]

My first experience was as a young child, watching a series on the Mickey Mouse Club called "Corky And White Shadow," about a young girl and her dog living in the old West who foil a bank robbery. At one point the bad guy ties Corky to a tree and she is menaced bay a rattlesnake crawling towards her. For some reason the scene riveted me to the floor. I could not move, or tear my eyes away. Understand I was just a young kid, too young to have specific sexual feelings, but I think from that moment a fascination with bondage was wired into my brain.

 

[colinmc65]

My first experience was as a young child, watching a series on the Mickey Mouse Club called "Corky And White Shadow," about a young girl and her dog living in the old West who foil a bank robbery. At one point the bad guy ties Corky to a tree and she is menaced bay a rattlesnake crawling towards her. For some reason the scene riveted me to the floor. I could not move, or tear my eyes away. Understand I was just a young kid, too young to have specific sexual feelings, but I think from that moment a fascination with bondage was wired into my brain.

yes, i have a dark, but also rather blurry memory that as a little boy, still under 10, i was always fascinated by movie scenes, especially from western films on tv, in which people sat behind bars or were chained to the stake.

 

[lember]

A very erotic situation, a woman alone ,naked and and at her most vulnerable in the shower!

Hitchcock knew that

 

[Loxuru]

From the darkness of my early life.
Pics in comic strips of women getting tied by the bad guys, made my fantasy go wild.
That was before being aware of something like sexuality.

When that came up, there was stuff like this : cinema posters and stills, and adult comics in the shops..., to detonate the bomb in my head.

 

[dfg42]

first "experiences" with bondage.
Hello. i was around 14, 15 years old when a sex booklet fell into my hands. at the time it wasn't hardcore porn yet. One of the articles there was about a young housewife who was surprised by a b

In my case it is not bondage it is contortion, on my yout I was more flexible, mainly for backhanding, so I undress backbend on chair mainly and got an erection.... I added some pics (one is even me, but ar age.) to get you an idea

 

[dfg42]

In my case it is not bondage it is contortion, on my yout I was more flexible, mainly for backhanding, so I undress backbend on chair mainly and got an erection.... I added some pics (one is even me, but ar age.) to get you an ideaView attachment 932251View attachment 932252View attachment 932253View attachment 932248View attachment 932249View attachment 932250

I saw naturally that many here are more into nude females, so I add the perfect match for me that so you can recover from my pics-----

 

[Zorf24]

i was about seven. we only had one tv at the time and Last of The Mohecans was on, and when it got to the burning scene, it really freaked me out. i dreamt that night it was me and a fetish was born.

i didn't get much into crux until i had a boyfriend into it later in life. to be honest, it's not really a big deal for me. i'm mostly just here because there's a lot of cross-over between the crux and burning communities.

 

[cynthia the inocent]

As a child growing up in the country, I was so nieve that sexual urges never entered my mind. We kids played in the woods and fields , often playing cowboys and indians . I would be captured by the indians, tied to a tree and tortured. I liked the attention but never got aroused over it. Later in life I was exposed to BDSM and found it to be sexually stimulating. Now it is one of the things I crave the most.

 

[AnimaSinistra]

It was my avatar (Saint Sebastian by Antonello Da Messina) which stimulated my sexual fantasies while I was still a boy.

 

[Peter_the_giant]

For me it was from when I was a kid. When I saw pictures, photos or movies of scenes of Damsels in distress or some actress being tied up, it made me feel... funny.

Later in life, this guided my discovery of BDSM trough the early internet.

 

[colinmc65]

my first bdsm experiences in the film in the mid eighties on vhs-tape. some photos from it. they are pretty well known

 

[colinmc65]

my dream of a sex slave

 

[Loinclothslave]

First experience…of bondage? I feel like I’ve addressed this before

Are we talking first bondage experience? Very pre pubescent, I began tying myself regularly with rope shackles when I was about 9.

When did I first want to be tied or chained up? Even earlier, of course, maybe 5 or 6?

What inspired it? I think this kink has been with me since awareness. It started with a loincloth skirt fetish, and I started secretly wearing one in bed from extremely young. Not every single night at first, but it was a favourite game. I’m very unsure if slavery was always involved, maybe it started because I liked the sensation of wearing the old soft baby sheet? But I linked it to slavery very early. I think through Catholic Church and old Bible movies like Ten Commandments and especially Ben Hur

All before I had much in the way of a sexuality, I definitely remember thinking the idea of putting my willie into a female was disgusting yet was already playing my nightly slave fantasy game, it just felt nice.

I can’t tell if it was actually a sexuality thing pre puberty, ask Freud. But definitely after!

I do think part of it at least was innate, I was born this way.

 

[Loxuru]

First experience…of bondage? I feel like I’ve addressed this before

Are we talking first bondage experience? Very pre pubescent, I began tying myself regularly with rope shackles when I was about 9.

When did I first want to be tied or chained up? Even earlier, of course, maybe 5 or 6?

What inspired it? I think this kink has been with me since awareness. It started with a loincloth skirt fetish, and I started secretly wearing one in bed from extremely young. Not every single night at first, but it was a favourite game. I’m very unsure if slavery was always involved, maybe it started because I liked the sensation of wearing the old soft baby sheet? But I linked it to slavery very early. I think through Catholic Church and old Bible movies like Ten Commandments and especially Ben Hur

All before I had much in the way of a sexuality, I definitely remember thinking the idea of putting my willie into a female was disgusting yet was already playing my nightly slave fantasy game, it just felt nice.

I can’t tell if it was actually a sexuality thing pre puberty, ask Freud. But definitely after!

I do think part of it at least was innate, I was born this way.

Many points sound familiar. The slavery aspect has never been my thing, but in bed, under the sheets, I lived a weird fantasy world.
Born with it too. I wonder if even Freud would have an explanation for it?

 

[colinmc65]

First experience…of bondage? I feel like I’ve addressed this before

Are we talking first bondage experience? Very pre pubescent, I began tying myself regularly with rope shackles when I was about 9.

When did I first want to be tied or chained up? Even earlier, of course, maybe 5 or 6?

What inspired it? I think this kink has been with me since awareness. It started with a loincloth skirt fetish, and I started secretly wearing one in bed from extremely young. Not every single night at first, but it was a favourite game. I’m very unsure if slavery was always involved, maybe it started because I liked the sensation of wearing the old soft baby sheet? But I linked it to slavery very early. I think through Catholic Church and old Bible movies like Ten Commandments and especially Ben Hur

All before I had much in the way of a sexuality, I definitely remember thinking the idea of putting my willie into a female was disgusting yet was already playing my nightly slave fantasy game, it just felt nice.

I can’t tell if it was actually a sexuality thing pre puberty, ask Freud. But definitely after!

I do think part of it at least was innate, I was born this way.

to be chained or tied still fascinates me in my imaginattion to this day.
imagining sitting on a wooden horse with a wooden dildo inside me ..... wow.
early thoughts of being tied up must have developed in me around the age of 5 - 6.

 

[cerf]

first "experiences" with bondage.
Hello. i was around 14, 15 years old when a sex booklet fell into my hands. at the time it wasn't hardcore porn yet. One of the articles there was about a young housewife who was surprised by a burglar while she was taking a shower.
this tied the naked in the bathroom and then searched her apartment for valuables. since he didn't find much, he came back to her in the bathroom. as a "compensation" he passed on to her there. the story was written from the point of view of the woman who then had a strong orgasm at the end of the "gentle" rape. is certainly not realistic, but it stirred me up at the time. since then i have been dealing with such fantasies. attached are the pictures of the woman from the story.
how were your first experiences?

Colinmc65, I too remember this series. The model wasn't a Renée-Baker-of-the-elastic-nipples, or others from the series HOM, for example, but it seemed to happen about that time. A bit after Willey. I remember vividly the frissons evoked for either sex by the wooden chair and dildo and understand your desire to enthrone yourself there.

Has anyone here done a timeline on all that? A PhD?