jacksjg89
PROCRASTINATOR
I love this topic. I'm also going to make some generalizations about sex and gender and I also enjoy being corrected. One of the specific advantages of saying stupid things is the opportunity to learn something new.
I personally love pubic hair, and think there are a bunch of different factors at play. There's the question of visual aesthetic, control, confidence, and practicality of sex. I'll leave out the studies that say having pubic hair prevents certain diseases, because that's not really what we are talking about here.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think it's commonly believed that men are more into visual erotica than women are, so that when we guys give our opinion of Yay or Nay on pubic hair, we are mostly thinking about how it looks. And guys have different opinions on this too. I personally love looking at images of different stylings of pubic hair, and the different colors that can go with it.
And there there's control. A lot of BDSM stories I've read usually have the shy inexperienced girl start out hairy, and then their new Dom takes them in hand and forces them to shave, "Because that's what your master/mistress wants." The point is not whether she does or doesn't have it, but that the choice isn't hers. I think when @geolier said women with pubic hair look like real women, he's thinking what I think could possibly be true for some women, which is that modern women are being pressured into going bare. I think there are similar concerns about whether women freely choose to wear high heels or hijabs, where you can see both as a symbol of oppression, but you might piss of the woman you're trying to liberate if you get in her face about it.
And then there's confidence, and I think this is something that's slightly problematic, but enjoy none the less. I think a lot of guys, especially those who grew up with inferiority complexes, like myself, fetishize shyness and lack of confidence in a girl. In this case a girl who wears a black hoodie and cargo plants during springtime can be more attractive that a girl in short shorts and a banana strap top. And I think with that comes the idea that this woman is not preparing for sex, because they aren't expecting attention. She's not putting on make up, or getting expensive haircuts or doing her nails, and if she isn't concerned about her pubic hair other than how it feels for her. This lack of preparation can put a certain guy at ease. It would probably stress me out if I went on a date with a girl and found out that she had spent hours at the salon the day before getting her hair done, and hours before dinner doing her nails, and in preparation for later seeing to deforesting her pussy. Part of me is thinking "You could have spent that time doing literally anything else," and another part of me gets neurotic about how much effort I'm putting in.
Ladies don't usually fetishize lack of confidence in their partners, or in themselves. And I think for a lot of women shaving or trimming and stylizing their lower hair makes them feel more confident.
And then of course there how it feels during sex. I've mostly had unshaven partners, but have gone down on a woman four days after she shaved. If you ever wanted to know what haven your tongue sandpapered feels like, there you go. As for tasting the hair, don't mind it.
Those are my thoughts. Maybe a little uneven, I wrote them out of order, but hope that in intelligence and stupidity they will prove insightful.
I personally love pubic hair, and think there are a bunch of different factors at play. There's the question of visual aesthetic, control, confidence, and practicality of sex. I'll leave out the studies that say having pubic hair prevents certain diseases, because that's not really what we are talking about here.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think it's commonly believed that men are more into visual erotica than women are, so that when we guys give our opinion of Yay or Nay on pubic hair, we are mostly thinking about how it looks. And guys have different opinions on this too. I personally love looking at images of different stylings of pubic hair, and the different colors that can go with it.
And there there's control. A lot of BDSM stories I've read usually have the shy inexperienced girl start out hairy, and then their new Dom takes them in hand and forces them to shave, "Because that's what your master/mistress wants." The point is not whether she does or doesn't have it, but that the choice isn't hers. I think when @geolier said women with pubic hair look like real women, he's thinking what I think could possibly be true for some women, which is that modern women are being pressured into going bare. I think there are similar concerns about whether women freely choose to wear high heels or hijabs, where you can see both as a symbol of oppression, but you might piss of the woman you're trying to liberate if you get in her face about it.
And then there's confidence, and I think this is something that's slightly problematic, but enjoy none the less. I think a lot of guys, especially those who grew up with inferiority complexes, like myself, fetishize shyness and lack of confidence in a girl. In this case a girl who wears a black hoodie and cargo plants during springtime can be more attractive that a girl in short shorts and a banana strap top. And I think with that comes the idea that this woman is not preparing for sex, because they aren't expecting attention. She's not putting on make up, or getting expensive haircuts or doing her nails, and if she isn't concerned about her pubic hair other than how it feels for her. This lack of preparation can put a certain guy at ease. It would probably stress me out if I went on a date with a girl and found out that she had spent hours at the salon the day before getting her hair done, and hours before dinner doing her nails, and in preparation for later seeing to deforesting her pussy. Part of me is thinking "You could have spent that time doing literally anything else," and another part of me gets neurotic about how much effort I'm putting in.
Ladies don't usually fetishize lack of confidence in their partners, or in themselves. And I think for a lot of women shaving or trimming and stylizing their lower hair makes them feel more confident.
And then of course there how it feels during sex. I've mostly had unshaven partners, but have gone down on a woman four days after she shaved. If you ever wanted to know what haven your tongue sandpapered feels like, there you go. As for tasting the hair, don't mind it.
Those are my thoughts. Maybe a little uneven, I wrote them out of order, but hope that in intelligence and stupidity they will prove insightful.