Last evening at the club they tied rope around my breasts and suspended me. It feel like they were going to pull off my body as I slowly lifted off the floor.My breasts were purple by the time they lowered me down .
It is only my opinion Kathy ... That seems to be a fairly advanced procedure for someone at your stage of training ... Abuse just for the sake of it with no apparent disciplinary effect ... Prefer to use a more psychological approach personally.
It's also my opinion ; I tried that recently , motivated by a friend , but I didn't find in it a very deep pleasure ... It could be nice if the feet are not lefting the ground , just at the limit , and to be submitted to a hard whipping session : in this case, I reach a state of trance and , a toyed clit and vagina brings me a deep orgasm ...
But I've, I think, more years of BDSM'pratice than you , Kathy ...
Stay prudent and dont make things that the others want but only those that you wish : you're not a toy and dont let club'people treat you like one !
It's also my opinion ; I tried that recently , motivated by a friend , but I didn't find in it a very deep pleasure ... It could be nice if the feet are not lefting the ground , just at the limit , and to be submitted to a hard whipping session : in this case, I reach a state of trance and , a toyed clit and vagina brings me a deep orgasm ...
But I've, I think, more years of BDSM'pratice than you , Kathy ...
Stay prudent and dont make things that the others want but only those that you wish : you're not a toy and dont let club'people treat you like one !
The last pic looks close , but the rope was smaller.
Yes the ropes were slightly smaller then in the pic. No cuts but I will follow your advice.Smaller ? !!! No, dont use of them in this case , it could be dangerous !
Those ones seem well appropriate but with smaller ropes you're risking some cuts and to be wounded for the rest of your life ...
... and softer ropes ( in flax for example) are more appropriated than those ones in nylon ...
It is much more intense if there are a few strangers in the group. I am shy and the embarrassment is worse than the pain. Being tied and especially blind folded. I can hear comments but don't know who is making them. I am usually restrained in another room until the festivities and then paraded naked into the play room or sometimes the guests get to strip me. I cant describe the intensity of the multiple orgasms I experience.Is this how it looked Kathy?
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It is much more intense if there are a few strangers in the group. I am shy and the embarrassment is worse than the pain. Being tied and especially blind folded. I can hear comments but don't know who is making them. I am usually restrained in another room until the festivities and then paraded naked into the play room or sometimes the guests get to strip me. I cant describe the intensity of the multiple orgasms I experience.
Yikes. What Messaline and Ted Parry said. Please be careful. I'd say you're exploring your limits, all right. You don't mention if you enjoyed this or not. Are you going to do this again, or was once enough?Last evening at the club they tied rope around my breasts and suspended me. It feel like they were going to pull off my body as I slowly lifted off the floor.My breasts were purple by the time they lowered me down .
Being hung by my breasts was ok , I did not enjoy being hung that way but the overall experience of being nude in front of the Doms was humiliating but at the same time a turn on.Yikes. What Messaline and Ted Parry said. Please be careful. I'd say you're exploring your limits, all right. You don't mention if you enjoyed this or not. Are you going to do this again, or was once enough?
I was wondering : perhaps in your club could you search a Dom who would be your teacher , having with him ( or her) intimate sessions where you could learn step to step all what you're enjoying in BDSM ...
It could be more gainful rather than to try anything that a crowd can wish from you with the inherent risks that it brings ...
You would do well, Kathy ! Believe me, to be nude in front of a Dom ready to make you suffer and also knowing how to bring you the reward that you deserve , is a great moment ; if he (she) well knows his (her) role, you could reach, step to step ,what you're searching in BDSM ...
It rests to find a good Dom and it's not always evident ...
It should be a great honor (and pleasure of course) to be witness this spectacle. Hmmmmmmmm.Yes, i'm like Messaline, not a clubby girl, though when my Master has invited (male) friends to witness me being whipped and tortured, I've found it added a different kind of excitement from our usual 1:1 sessions.
I have found a female Domme that is willing to train me in private, She understands I'm new to the lifestyle and have a lot to learn about my limits.
Good luck! I hope you have a great time, and of course, keep us posted.I have found a female Domme that is willing to train me in private, She understands I'm new to the lifestyle and have a lot to learn about my limits.