I identify as a lesbian, mostly because of bad experiences with men in my youth. That being said, many lesbians enjoy sex with someone who has a penis. Good oral sex goes both ways. Some women find semen distasteful. but not all of us. Time goes by, but things haven;t changed much when it cums to sex
Ok, understand I am not into "Identifying" and we'll leave it at that. I am a woman, the female of the human race. You can check my chromosomes. And I love batting for both teams.
I am in a committed long term lesbian relationship with the same woman. She is strictly lesbian and hates men, she was like that when I knew her in college and I've never asked why. While she will occasionally invite another woman to join us it is not generally an "open" relationship.
That said I LOVE having sex with a man, a real man, a man who knows how to be both dominant and a gentleman.
Being submissive, when my partner wants something they generally get it (I do have limits and I state those up front before any clothing disappears) because pleasing them is one of the things that brings me joy.
Oral sex is a lot of fun (with both sexes) and as far as semen is concerned different men taste differently. Some, the taste is pleasant and some you need to get that taste out of your mouth as soon as possible. But then that applies to vaginal juice too.
And then there are lousy lovers, both men and women.
And Cynthia is right, sex hasn't changed at all since the first homosapien decided to have it. Sex is not 'one thing or another' it is intended for reproduction of the species and we have turned it into a Olympic event. And if the sex isn't good you should really look at yourself first............
A RELATIONSHIP is about LOVE, sex is about FUN and as my mother always says "It is better to have a love life than a sex life".
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