UPDATE: After a week of getting to know people and posting pics from my stash....(which have already been posted here)
I get a P.M from their admins...
They removed the most interesting/popular pictures I'd spent time and effort posting because it breached their copyright policy. !!
.... unless I proved that either the pics were mine or were of myself !!
I'm sorry but I'm damned if I'm showing MY Dick to complete strangers !!
So now my Fetlife profile is pretty fucking boring !! So there you go....it really has gone to pot.
Oh,And with the exception of a vanilla group,I've had NO response to my forum posts!! (come to think of it nor have other people,they just do NOT bite !!)