Aiden deserves the punishment simply for putting those boots with those stockings.In YOUR ideal fantasy what turns you on more, who deserves the punishment more, who would you see receive the punishment? Heather or Aiden?
Actually, let's crucify both of them. Variety is the spice of life.
Generally I don't really care whether she is innocent or guilty. I tend toward innocent in my stories because what really fascinates me is that opening up of the girl to the point of vulnerability, and acceptance (however reluctantly) of that vulnerability. The path to the crucifixion is similar to negotiating away inhibitions, overcoming her shyness, and encouraging her surrender. In the end, I don't care if she's guilty, as long as she becomes sympathetic.