willowfall
Senator
Hello Gentlemen;
I've been debating for a while if I should post this or not. I'm sure those of you who know me are not surprised I came down on the side of opening my big mouth.
But it is in the cause of fostering better intersex relations.
And I don't speak for any woman but myself.
Recently, I have been contacted by a couple of guys, who wanted to talk and other things, from here in the group thru PM. I've got absolutely no problem with that. Everybody who knows me, knows I love to interact and play. So far so good.
But I think there are things that you should all be aware of.
Cruxforums is not a dating app. I am honored that you find me interesting enough to want to talk to me and think that you “love” me but I have no interest in being your sex slave or meeting you to help you fulfill your fantasies. Go ahead and ask if you wish (who knows I may change my mind) but be grownup about it when I say no.
Don't ask for personal identifying information, I have been stalked in RL once already because of being in the old Yahoo Crux group it is not an experience I wish to repeat. I don't use my real name on the internet so that I have anonymity. And for God's sake DON'T ask for pictures, naked and otherwise, I have no intention of being the next internet poster girl. I have over the years given my likeness to artists I know will be discreet with it. If I come to trust you that much, and I think you have talent, I'll make the offer.
I have no problem chatting with you about your fantasies. But understand I may not share them or even understand them. That doesn't make them wrong they just don't interest me the way they interest you.
But let's say we become interested in deeply discussing a particular fantasy. I generally find women are more intellectually stimulated about fantasies than visually (don't get me wrong we love a well put together guy, if we are wired to like men) stimulated so don't send me unsolicited pictures of yourself.
Write to me, describe a scene or a situation, let me fill in what you look like, I'll build a scene around our interactions. If you can stimulate me intellectually, I'll stay engaged.
(On a complete side note, if you want to do something visual come see me in Second Life, we can play real hard then.)
Oh, and I have nothing against it, in fact I enjoy it, but stop getting your 'facts of life' about BDSM from porn. I am not your slave because you can smack me around (Hell I've got 4 brothers who could probably smack most of you around) or scream curses at me. If all you want is to torment and execute me, then yeah, porn isn't a bad representation.
But if you want me to be your willing submissive there is a real good chance that I will be submissive to you if I find you have an intellect worthy of being admired. True slavery is of the mind, not physical force, I know I'm submissive in RL but only to people whom I admire and respect.
I'm not complaining but often women don't really get engaged in groups like this because some idiot unknowingly screws up. Consider the above a life lesson to help you not screw up.
kisses
willowfall
ps: Mods I wasn't sure where to post this. Move it if you wish.
I've been debating for a while if I should post this or not. I'm sure those of you who know me are not surprised I came down on the side of opening my big mouth.
But it is in the cause of fostering better intersex relations.
And I don't speak for any woman but myself.
Recently, I have been contacted by a couple of guys, who wanted to talk and other things, from here in the group thru PM. I've got absolutely no problem with that. Everybody who knows me, knows I love to interact and play. So far so good.
But I think there are things that you should all be aware of.
Cruxforums is not a dating app. I am honored that you find me interesting enough to want to talk to me and think that you “love” me but I have no interest in being your sex slave or meeting you to help you fulfill your fantasies. Go ahead and ask if you wish (who knows I may change my mind) but be grownup about it when I say no.
Don't ask for personal identifying information, I have been stalked in RL once already because of being in the old Yahoo Crux group it is not an experience I wish to repeat. I don't use my real name on the internet so that I have anonymity. And for God's sake DON'T ask for pictures, naked and otherwise, I have no intention of being the next internet poster girl. I have over the years given my likeness to artists I know will be discreet with it. If I come to trust you that much, and I think you have talent, I'll make the offer.
I have no problem chatting with you about your fantasies. But understand I may not share them or even understand them. That doesn't make them wrong they just don't interest me the way they interest you.
But let's say we become interested in deeply discussing a particular fantasy. I generally find women are more intellectually stimulated about fantasies than visually (don't get me wrong we love a well put together guy, if we are wired to like men) stimulated so don't send me unsolicited pictures of yourself.
Write to me, describe a scene or a situation, let me fill in what you look like, I'll build a scene around our interactions. If you can stimulate me intellectually, I'll stay engaged.
(On a complete side note, if you want to do something visual come see me in Second Life, we can play real hard then.)
Oh, and I have nothing against it, in fact I enjoy it, but stop getting your 'facts of life' about BDSM from porn. I am not your slave because you can smack me around (Hell I've got 4 brothers who could probably smack most of you around) or scream curses at me. If all you want is to torment and execute me, then yeah, porn isn't a bad representation.
But if you want me to be your willing submissive there is a real good chance that I will be submissive to you if I find you have an intellect worthy of being admired. True slavery is of the mind, not physical force, I know I'm submissive in RL but only to people whom I admire and respect.
I'm not complaining but often women don't really get engaged in groups like this because some idiot unknowingly screws up. Consider the above a life lesson to help you not screw up.
kisses
willowfall
ps: Mods I wasn't sure where to post this. Move it if you wish.