I think the notion gay, lesbians etc. are invented to divide the people. The Romans may have used the socially not accepted passsive penetration of adult males (look how many conditions need to be fullfilled: adult, passive...) to degrade the victim. In our society that kind of sex should be accepted. I personally think that all persons should do anal sex, such as they should regularly masturbate. To open the sphincter muscle from below is different than shitting. I go relatively often to a massage and allways go all the way. There is the interesting question if that lowers your continence, I experienced quite the opposite, however that would have to be scientifically researched. For those claiming to be straight: The word your are looking is "coward" not "straight". You have to be men enough to light on your backside letting someone enter your anus. In the case you think it is pain, I recommend to masturbate, because that lowers your pain level.
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What females considers, I giess it would be helpful for them to. But all my female partners so far, were against that kind of practise, but it is their problem, indeed.
Wow that's a very old post you've dug up there LOL
March 4th 2013 in fact - OK so that's only just over a decade ago which to be fair is a lot better than the levels of post necromancy that I've seen on some forums over the years, but I actually agree with you, but I would take some issue with your use of the word "coward", since not all men will be receptive to the idea of anal penetration (lots of women are not into it either). I don't think it's fair to lavel such people as "cowards" though - not everybody out there is as sexually adventurous as we are in here, after all.
As for the idea of labelling people as a way to divide society, yes you are absolutely correct. While I'm fine with being called a lesbian, I have no time for terms like "gay", "queer", "dyke" etc. Unfortunately there are those people (most especially those in the media) who thrive on creating social division, and I feel that this speaks more to their own lack of social confidence in that they feel the need to demonise those who don't share their opinions. Such levels of tribalism are extremely damaging for all of us and should not be tolerated - after all, it isn't tolerated when the criticism goes the other way....
At the end of the day, I'm just a woman who has always - from a very early age - been attracted to other women. Most people don't seem to have a problem with that and who the fuck cares if they do - my life, my body and my choice - to hell with what anyone else thinks.
Nobody cares these days who you get tuirned on by - it's just not relevant to most people anymore (well not in the western word anyway), and when people (regardless of their sexual orientation) kick back against the media and their "gay agenda" (to use a term invented by that same media), it's not because they're anti-lgbtq+, but simply because they're sick and tired of having it constantly rammed down their throats from all angles in every facet of our modern society and our entertainment. This is NOT doing us any good at all and actually risks causing society to regress back to a time when we did actually persecute gay people (as they still do in evil countries like Russia, China and the middle east - it is those intolerant regimes that need to be targetted by the media agenda, not us in the west for whom this is largey a non-issue and has been at least since the mid 80s
Getting to your final point, yes, I know many women who are opposed to any kind of anal sex. I have to say that in my experience, the majority of these have made that decision without ever trying it, and the majority of those in that group that have subsequently tried it have actually gone on to find it very pleasurable.
I genuinely love anal play - while my tight rear entrance is unable to accommodate the kind of monstrous objects that many porn stars seem to be able to take (I admit to being too scared to take poppers which would probably let my nicely bleached anal swalow much larger objects) I'm fine with average size dildos (plenty of lube though please), and delicately probing fingers (I don't stretch quite enough to take a whole fist though, which is kind of a shame because I'd probaby love it if I could manage it) and of course tongues (oooooh I
really love being rimmed - I can rach orgasm by just the thought of a beautiful woman holding my cheeks apart and shoving her tongue right up there ). I love giving anal pleasure to other women too and I've found that most of them have actually enjoyed it immensely. I think it's easy to decide ahead of time that you're not going to enjoy something and then you tense yourself up to the point where any kind of sex is going to be uncomfortable, then the whole experience becomes negative
So yes I think it's great when people try new things, but I would never criticise those who really don't want to do it, for whatever reason. Live and let live - I was put on this earth to give pleasure to women, not to indoctrinate anybody