Skatingjesus's Crux Thread.

[thehangingtree]

may and yours have the best!

 

[SkatingJesus]

Some news:
My sister is out of danger, surgery is over and went pretty well, judging by what my sis and my parents told me.
She's alert and "fine", and seems to handle the situation quite well, even if it has ended with the loss of her baby.

I guess that point will be harder to handle with in the next days, after the relief of the end of pain.
For a lot of reasons, she knew that pregnancy could be dangerous to her, but decided to keep it anyway.
Her choice, and the risks with it. Maybe she will give it another try in the future, that one was pretty much an "accident", and maybe she wasn't prepared enough for that.
Anyway, she will have some rest, and will take time for her in the next days, hope I can be useful to her.
Obviously, that won't change the situation for me, and so, I will take a break too from the internet for the next days.

Thank you again for your support, friends.
I wasn't expecting that much from our community, linked by way stronger bonds than I believed.

In real life, I have the reputation of being an unsensitive and highly pragmatic guy, but things are always different when it's about your own family, your own blood. Your help is truly precious to me. I appreciate it a lot, really. Thank you all.
When things will be better, hope I will find a good way to give you back this support, this help. I want to tell you all that I am very grateful for this help, a good way to make this "Worst Christmas ever" a bit less bad.

Thank you all, again.

SJ.

 

[Jackie1111]

So sorry about all this, SJ. But glad to hear your sister is at least out of danger.

Take care of yourself and the family. The erotic fantasy art can wait. Your fans will still be here.

 

[geolier]

Hi all,

I'm sorry for this news, but I just can't work on 3D for an indefinite time.
Christmas didn't go well, I have very big family problems, and I have to redefine my life priorities.

Two days ago, my young sister, aged 26, had been hospitalized in emergency, her pregnancy went wrong, with severe hemorragic losses and obviously, death of the foetus. Yes, that happened during Christmas day.
I have lost another member of my family two months ago, and it's too much for my mother. For obvious reasons, I have decided to take a break from all my 3D stuff to join my family, and trying, as much as I can, to support them.

I have troubles at work, our entreprise doesn't go well, thanks to the crisis.

I am suffering harrassement because of my 3D works/Comics from another artist, degenerating as death threats, now. This is too much, even for me.

All of these events made me think about my priorities right now, and so, I have to stop all for days, weeks, or even months, I don't know.
To be honest, I can't find any motivation anyway in these last days.

I won't close my account, but don't expect anything new before some time.

I'm deeply sorry for this, for those who waited for news for my future comics, but I need to take a break, to clean this shit, before being able to write another story again.

Sorry, my friends, but I have another war to wage, now.


Thanks to all of you,

SJ.

My feelings are with you.

 

[windar]

I will be thinking of you and your family. Never lose hope.

 

[GabriellaSivilla]

I have just connected to CF and found this bad news. I am deeply sad for what has happened to Your family, and sincererly hope that things will improve from now on, for what is possible. Situation can be quite dark, but there should be always light at the end of the tunnel.

Please, be assured that here at CF you have friends that care about You and would give You back in affection what You have given us with Your art.

Sweet, sweet kisses
Yours Gabriella

 

[IgnikaMarcus]

Do what you must, SJ.
Hope things get better.

 

[jimsac]

Hello SJ
So sorry to hear about your misfortunes and glad to hear your sister is out of danger. As you can see, a lot of people at crux forums care about you and support you in any decision you might make. We may miss your beautiful drawings, but things in RL must take priority.
I wish you the best of luck for the upcoming year.

 

[Jollyrei]

I can only echo what others have said. I can certainly understand the need to take care of family. Keep up hope and we'll be here wishing the best for you and yours, SJ.

 

[Crux-Emperor Baracus X]

S.J. You are in our thoughts....
Please,take whatever time YOU need to recover from your problems. (glad your sister's procedure went ok)
And look forward to seeing you again,whenever you are ready.

 

[MahaShiva]

Hi all,

I'm sorry for this news, but I just can't work on 3D for an indefinite time.
Christmas didn't go well, I have very big family problems, and I have to redefine my life priorities.

Two days ago, my young sister, aged 26, had been hospitalized in emergency, her pregnancy went wrong, with severe hemorragic losses and obviously, death of the foetus. Yes, that happened during Christmas day.
I have lost another member of my family two months ago, and it's too much for my mother. For obvious reasons, I have decided to take a break from all my 3D stuff to join my family, and trying, as much as I can, to support them.

I have troubles at work, our entreprise doesn't go well, thanks to the crisis.

I am suffering harrassement because of my 3D works/Comics from another artist, degenerating as death threats, now. This is too much, even for me.

All of these events made me think about my priorities right now, and so, I have to stop all for days, weeks, or even months, I don't know.
To be honest, I can't find any motivation anyway in these last days.

I won't close my account, but don't expect anything new before some time.

I'm deeply sorry for this, for those who waited for news for my future comics, but I need to take a break, to clean this shit, before being able to write another story again.

Sorry, my friends, but I have another war to wage, now.


Thanks to all of you,

SJ.

Just bringing over my response to your announcement on dA:

Sorry to hear about the hard times that you have to deal with, SJ, and glad to know that your sister is doing OK. Needless to say, the real world takes precedent over the cyber world any time of the day (or the year). So, by all means, be with your family--they need you much more badly right now than we do here on dA. Come back when you are ready, and all will be well. All the best to you and to you whole family!

 

[Wragg]

SJ, take all the time you need, my thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[Frank Petrexa]

Hi all,

I'm sorry for this news, but I just can't work on 3D for an indefinite time.
Christmas didn't go well, I have very big family problems, and I have to redefine my life priorities.

Two days ago, my young sister, aged 26, had been hospitalized in emergency, her pregnancy went wrong, with severe hemorragic losses and obviously, death of the foetus. Yes, that happened during Christmas day.
I have lost another member of my family two months ago, and it's too much for my mother. For obvious reasons, I have decided to take a break from all my 3D stuff to join my family, and trying, as much as I can, to support them.

I have troubles at work, our entreprise doesn't go well, thanks to the crisis.

I am suffering harrassement because of my 3D works/Comics from another artist, degenerating as death threats, now. This is too much, even for me.

All of these events made me think about my priorities right now, and so, I have to stop all for days, weeks, or even months, I don't know.
To be honest, I can't find any motivation anyway in these last days.

I won't close my account, but don't expect anything new before some time.

I'm deeply sorry for this, for those who waited for news for my future comics, but I need to take a break, to clean this shit, before being able to write another story again.

Sorry, my friends, but I have another war to wage, now.

Losing a baby is one of the worst things that can happen. But time heals and gives perspective. Maybe there will even be some good for a child without options who gets adopted?
In my humble opinion, the forum should require nothing of you, not even an explanation. Take care of what is important.

 

[bobinder]

Sorry, my friends, but I have another war to wage, now.


Thanks to all of you,

SJ.

Take care, SJ.
Wishing you and yours all the very best.

 

[Bartnel]

Hello SJ,

Just came back to read those bad news.
So sad to loose a baby ... RL is the most important and all my support to you and your family !

 

[messaline]

I hadn't viewed these bad news, SJ , but, being not far from you , I hope that you will feel my presence near you in these circumstances ...
Have a long rest , it's the best to overcome the difficulties of the life ... And be sure that everybody here could wait your come back ( if , a day, you're wishing to do it ) ...

Kisses ....... Messaline

 

[Deleted member 16320]

Some news:
My sister is out of danger, surgery is over and went pretty well, judging by what my sis and my parents told me.
She's alert and "fine", and seems to handle the situation quite well, even if it has ended with the loss of her baby.

I guess that point will be harder to handle with in the next days, after the relief of the end of pain.
For a lot of reasons, she knew that pregnancy could be dangerous to her, but decided to keep it anyway.
Her choice, and the risks with it. Maybe she will give it another try in the future, that one was pretty much an "accident", and maybe she wasn't prepared enough for that.
Anyway, she will have some rest, and will take time for her in the next days, hope I can be useful to her.
Obviously, that won't change the situation for me, and so, I will take a break too from the internet for the next days.

Thank you again for your support, friends.
I wasn't expecting that much from our community, linked by way stronger bonds than I believed.

In real life, I have the reputation of being an unsensitive and highly pragmatic guy, but things are always different when it's about your own family, your own blood. Your help is truly precious to me. I appreciate it a lot, really. Thank you all.
When things will be better, hope I will find a good way to give you back this support, this help. I want to tell you all that I am very grateful for this help, a good way to make this "Worst Christmas ever" a bit less bad.

Thank you all, again.

SJ.

SJ you always have my full support ... take as much time as you need ... the death of a family member is the worst life lesson!

I think it's the worst this year, at least for me ...... my beloved dog died, I lost my car ... my grandmother died ...
on New Year's Eve with a thirst for the year 2018 .... and maybe next year will be better ...

anyway ..... please take as much time as you need, and the gate is ready for you ... please ....

and who the beast-artist makes fun of your losers, is this a normal person ???
please write who it is and where to find it !!!

 

[crumera]

I wish you strength with this bitter-sweet outcome.
glad you didn't lose your sis, pity she lost the baby.
Will light a candle for you and your famlly.

As said before by others RL first.. then the rest.
Take the time you need...

 

[old slave]

To be honest, I can't find any motivation anyway in these last days.

This is quite normal, and when your family situation has resolved itself to the best of your abilities, your motivation will return.
Our thoughts are with you, do your best, but remember, even you cannot perform miracles.

 

[Deleted member 16320]

people I think for some time I will also leave this forum ... SJ was the only one who kept me here, I love his works, but with his departure, here I lost the motivation to stay here .... I wish you a nice new year 2019 and mainly to you Sj...

Have a nice time ....
maybe I'll be back sometime ...