Understandable. But there is the comment from a 17th-century Lord Chesterfield to his son: "The pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable." There is also the line from the Altman film "McCabe and Mrs. Miller": "Money and pain. Pain."COMPLICATED? Maybe. But I would never give up, believe me!
I still contend that there are complications.
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What a damned dismal outlook. To paraphrase Humphrey Bogart, sex should be the most fun you can have without laughing.